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Óë°®ÇéÓйصÄÓ¢ÓïÑݽ²¸åƪ¡¡¡¡youmyobserve,thtmongstllthegretnorthypersons(hereofthememoryremineth,eitherncientorrecent)thereisnotone,thththbeentrnsportetothemegreeoflove:hichshosthtgretspirits,ngretbusiness,oeepoutthisepssion.youmustexcept,nevertheless,mrcusntonius,thehlfprtneroftheempireofrome,nppiuscluius,theecemvirnlgiver;hereoftheformersineevoluptuousmn,ninorinte;butthelttersnusterenisemn:nthereforeitseems(thoughrrely)thtlovecnfinentrnce,notonlyintonopenhert,butlsointohertellfortifie,iftchbenotellept.

¡¡¡¡itispoorsyingofepicurus,stismgnumlterlterithetrumsumus;sifmn,meforthecontempltionofheven,nllnobleobjects,shoulonothingbutneelbeforelittleiol,nmehimselfsubject,thoughnotofthemouth(sbestsre),yetoftheeye;hichsgivenhimforhigherpurposes.

¡¡¡¡itisstrngething,tonotetheexcessofthispssion,nhoitbrvesthenture,nvlueofthings,bythis;thtthespeinginperpetulhyperbole,iscomelyinnothingbutinlove.neitherisitmerelyinthephrse;forheresiththbeenellsi,thttherch-fltterer,ithhomllthepettyfltterershveintelligence,ismn’sself;certinlytheloverismore.fortheresneverproumnthoughtsobsurlyellofhimself,stheloverothofthepersonlove;nthereforeitsellsi,thtitisimpossibletolove,ntobeise.neitheroththisenessppertoothersonly,nnottotheprtylove;buttothelovemostofll,exceptthelovebereciproque.foritistruerule,thtloveiseverrere,eitheriththereciproque,orithninrnsecretcontempt.

¡¡¡¡byhomuchthemore,menoughttobereofthispssion,hichlosethnotonlyotherthings,butitself!sfortheotherlosses,thepoet’sreltionothellfigurethem:ththethtpreferrehelen,quittethegiftsofjunonplls.forhosoeveresteemethtoomuchofmorousffection,quittethbothrichesnisom.

¡¡¡¡thispssionhthhisfloos,inverytimesofeness;hichregretprosperity,ngretversity;thoughthisltterhthbeenlessobserve:bothhichtimesinlelove,nmeitmorefervent,nthereforeshoittobethechiloffolly.theyobest,hoiftheycnnotbutmitlove,yetmeiteepqurters;nseverithollyfromtheirseriousffirs,nctions,oflife;forifitcheconceithbusiness,ittroublethmen’sfortunes,nmethmen,thttheycnnoysbetruetotheironens.

Óë°®ÇéÓйصÄÓ¢ÓïÑݽ²¸åƪ2¡¡¡¡sitisnon,henereinhighschool,ellhveconstntgolthtistogettheentrncetocollege,nhrorisoutofquestionforthefolloing.Soeginthenoticetocollegefinllyhicheoftenremofinthenights,hichprovesproverbthtthegooesn’tliveuptosomeonehospenstimenefforts,plesememorizethesentenceforgoo.

¡¡¡¡OfcourseoneyeenttocollegeinugustorSeptemberhppilynprouly,buttthesmetimesomethinghppenethtitmeyourhertpouningfiercelynext,bythey,thtisloveformnycollegestuents.nthentheymisstheirectionsntheirselvessellfortheirlives.NextImtoexpressthtImneutrlforfllinginloveincollege,hoeverIhvesomeiestoillustrteofmyon.

¡¡¡¡Firstly,ifyourepssers-by,Ithineillfinlotboutseverlcouplesofboyfriensngirlfriensunertheormsorimcornersorintheclssesithoutnyboyforclosepostures,syoungsters,itisnormlithoutsingcusebouttht.

¡¡¡¡Seconly,evenorthmentioningisthtmnyyoungboysngirlscouln’tttenclssesncoursesinsteoftrvelingtosomesceneriesnsightplcesoroingotherthingsonlytoturnoutthemloveechother.

¡¡¡¡Thirly,especillytomostoffreshmen,pleseon’tbeinfluencebythephenomenonthtnumberofstuentshofinsntherhlfcllebythemselvesprouly,becuseIthinpersonsreifferentfromechother,ifferentchrcters,bcgrounsnims.

¡¡¡¡Butthereisonepointtoobeyifyouctullynttohventtemptthefeelingforlovetfirstsight:itis,heneveryounIm,thelerningntheoristhemostprinciplertherthnloveisthefirstnorsecon,foreren’tchilrennteengersnymore,inthefuturesocietyneescomprehensivequlifictions,profounnextensivenolegepersons,menhileincollegeyoureinthestteofhlffoottosocietyhichtimeismostimportntprocesstoexercisenexperiencebeforesteppingtocomplictencomplexsociety,nthereforeeresupposetospenmuchtimeinlerninginste.

¡¡¡¡htrementionebovereonlymyopinions,believingthtothershvemoreperfectforfllinginloveincollege.

Óë°®ÇéÓйصÄÓ¢ÓïÑݽ²¸åƪ3¡¡¡¡eversincetheningofthehistoryofmnin,therehvebeenmyrisofpersifeinventions,iscoveries,nevenexplortionsofthemysteriesoftheuniverse.infct,thehumnbeingsresointelligentthtehvesolvelmostllinsofproblemsehveconfronteith.

¡¡¡¡hoever,noboyhsevermeouthttheor“love”rellyconnotes,noteventhemostfmouspeoplesuchsgretpoliticins,sintsnphilosopherscnclrifythemeningof“love”,neithercntheyeliththevriousffirsconcerninglove.loveisliehugebounlessnetthtshroususllin.ecnneitherbreyfromitnorescpefromit.lieitornot,erelysentngleinit.itisninvisiblenetithoutnyform,thtshrousinifferentpeoplefromifferentngels;itismercilessnetthtupsetsusoreventorturesustoeth.itislsosupremenethichlmostnohumncnsurpss.eveniftheyreheroes,emperors,isemenorsints,theycnonothingbutshotheirhelplessnessinitsfce.thosehocnbrethethroughtheholesofthenetshoulberegrebeyoncommonnessnvulgrity.lovecnbringustemporrycomfortnhppiness,butmostlytheybringboutnnoyncensufferings.mybethisistheresonhymnypeoplehveseenthroughtheillusionsofthemortlorl.hoeveritisnotsoesytobreyfromthisbounless,ever-existingninifferentnetoflove.

¡¡¡¡loveisvrienchngeble,butroughlyitcnbepieintothreectegories:fmilylove,frternllovenmtorylove.notliemoneyinghojumpeoutoftherocs,eerellbornftermother'spregnncyofboutninemonths,henceehvecountlessreltivesithoutnychoice:prents,grn-prents,ngrn-prents-in-l,unclesnunties,brothersnsisters,etc.noncelooingtthegenelogicltree,e'llseenoen.fmilyloveishteveryonelongsfor,butthermthnsupportfromourbeloveonesrehteveryoneyernsforthemost.buthomnyofusreeterminetocontributetoourbeloveone?nhomnyon'texpectrepymentnrelxe.conscienceeveniftheyhvetheesirenpreprtiontocontributetotheirbelove.theistncebeteenreltivesisifferentnsoretheirexpecttions.butsinceit'sveryifficulttonohomucheshoulexpect,lotoforriesnistressesemerge.

¡¡¡¡prentslysexpecttheirchilrentoshotheirfililobeience,ortlestpythemfrequentvisitsftertheyhvegotmrrie.ifthechilrenfiltoothis,theyfeelhurtnupset,nthey'llevencomplinbouttheirchilren,becusetheyjustcn'tunerstnhytheirchilrenon'tcreboutthemfterhttheyhveoneforthechilrenforsomnyyerstobringthemup.nevertheless,one'sexperienceetermineshisieology.youngchilrenrenturllyttchetotheirprents,buthentheygroup,specillyhentheyhvemetheironfriens,ngotmrrie,httheyneemostisinepenencenfreeom,nprentssometimesmightbecometheirburen.oncethereisgenertiongp,itbecomesmoreifficulttocommunictenthiseepsthemyfromtheirprents.objectivelyspeing,theyneemoreinepenenceinorertochievesuccess.inthepresentsociety,htthechilrennttohvemostistheeconomicsupportfromtheirprents,nottheirmorlsupportorguince.theyoulcomplinifyoureconomicsupportisnotuptotheirexpecttions.thelovefromunclesnuntiesoulnturllyinleftertheyhvehtheironchilren.onlythelovefromgrn-prentsngrnprents-in-lispurenemnsnorepyment,ntheyrelsotoooltoitfornyrepyment.sfortheistntreltives,theirloveepensontheirnees,juststheolsyinggoes“thepoorhvenofrienseveniftheyliveinontonhiletherichhveistntreltiveseveniftheyliveineepmountins”.grnnyliu,istntinsfol,inremoftheremnsions,climsinshipiththeelthyjifmily,thiningthtshemybenefitfromitinsomeys.liumighthverunyithoutnytrcesifthejifmilyhbeenpoorone.nothersyinggoes“closeneighborsrebetterthnistntreltives.”themostifficultistomngethereltiveshenoingbusinesstogether,justshtthetvseriesprogrmliulogeniscloses.itisllrighttostypoortogether,butssoonsthebusinessgrosprosperous,thegroupillbecomeestrngenevenissolvebecuseoftheunfiristribution.fmilyloveisliemzehicheshouln'tgotoofrintoit,otherise,e'llsurelygetlost.loveisbilterlmtternunilterllovecnonlyleyoutonohereinspiteofyourgoointentions.fmilyloveis,sometimes,lienrrngemrrige,levingnochoicestoyou.uetotheifferentexperiencesntstes,styingtogethertemporrilycnbeentertining,hilelivingtogetherforlongtimecnonlybeboringuetothelcofcommoninterestnunerstning.hocnecommunicteithechotherithoutunerstning?prentshvetheutytosupportthechilrenhorenotyeteconomicllyinepenent,nchilrenhvetheresponsibilitytoproviefortheelerlyprentshorelcofeconomicbilitiestosupportthemselves.exceptthesetoinsofutieshichemustfulfill,otherinsoflovebecomeconventionlformlitiessuchspyingvisittothesicortheengivingpresentstothenely-bornetc..

¡¡¡¡nolovemongreltiveshsbecomenormlphenomenonhichneen'ttobefussebout.ht'sorseishenloveiscontmintebymoney.soonerorltereillgethurt.thesooneregetoutofthisnetoflove,themoreecnpreservebeutifulmemories.

¡¡¡¡erenotlivinginvcuum,nthesocietyisformeofvriousinsofpeople.slongsenttolive,stuy,oror,ehvetocontct,communictencooperteithothers.thosehoenjoycommoninterests,mutulunerstning,commonunertingsncommonbenefitsbecomefriens.

¡¡¡¡somefriensrecllefir-etherfriens,becusetheyretogetherjustforentertiningthemselvesbyeting,rining,ngossiping.oncethere'snothingtoetnrin,theirfrienshipisfinishe.somerespiritulfrienshoshrecommonmbitions,pursuitsneuction.“theyenjoytlingnlughingiththegrettlentsnnevermefriensiththegoo-for-nothings”.thebestexmplesoulbeyuboynzhongziqiofthencienttimeshorefmousnotonlyfortheirloftymusicbutminlyfortheirloftychrctersnmutulunerstningnpprecition.theycreverylittleboutmterilelth,sotheirfrienshipisnons“gentlemen'sfrienshipspurester”.thethirtypeoffrienshipbelongtothosehoshotheirutterevotiontoechother.theyrereynotonlytoshreelnoebutlsotoieforechother,liethethreebrothersliu,gunnzhnginthenovelromnceofthethreeingoms..ellishtohvethisinoffrienship,butit'sofgretifficultyfortheorinrypeopletobesevotestheyere.

¡¡¡¡frternlloveorfrienshipisie-rngenflexible.generllyspeing,everyoneisourfrien,justschirmnmosys“ourfriensrellovertheorl”.buttrnscenge,sex,ntionlity,stteneconomicconitions.tothemthemostimportntiscommonbenefit,commoninterestnunerstning.frienshipisformeuringthecourseofstuying,oringnfighting.thebttlecompnionshohvesurvivemnyhzrsusullyenjoylong-lstingfrienship.

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